Remember Morlaye, the one who welcomed me into his family as a brother,
Tall, lanky, too skinny from illness,
Eyes, engaging, playful, yellowish and cloudy from illness,
Wool hat, even on hot, humid days,
Hair under the hat, dark with a white spot in the front.
Remember Morlaye, the 38-year old nicknamed Bebe,
He was the youngest son,
Though not the youngest of six.
Radio on, the news was his constant companion,
Morlaye would talk with me about any and all: taboos, politics, religion, culture,
His French was well-spoken, voice clear
Thank-you for helping me learn the Guinean twist on French,
Thanks again for laughing and encouraging my feeble attempts at Susu
Remember Morlaye, the one who would walk with me to uncover the paths of Forecariah,
The bridge on a clear night, reflections of the Milky Way and its partners in the river,
The family rice fields on a plantation 5k from town,
Night walks as I gained night vision on cloudy, electric-free evenings dodging to avoid puddles,
Off to the club, an introduction to Guinean nightlife.
Remember Morlaye, the one who laughed at me the morning I was ready to leave with my shirt inside out,
Only to laugh more when we realized
His shirt was also inside out.
Remember Morlaye, father of two,
Marian, his wonderful 16-year old daughter, the pride of his life,
She passed the national exam only days before.
Remember Morlaye,
My first Guinean friend,
My teacher,
My brother.
One of the things that I am going to have to steel myself to is the fact that death is so much more present in Africa. At the end of my host family stay, my brother Morlaye passed away. It was a definite shock for me as he was truly the one who helped me begin my integration into the Guinean lifestyle. I will miss you and I wish you could give me the surprise visit to Wonkifong that you wanted to take once your health recovered.